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KEYNOTES
AND SEMINARS
Sean Casey LeClaire's Speaker's One-Sheet PRESENTATION THEMES Well Being at Work Living Life on Purpose Embodying Your Values Managing Male Anger Meditation for a Mad World Addiction, Creativity & Work Performance
*special 2008 event Using wisdom principles, awareness-based coaching, conversation, movement and meditation we will explore and engage the mind, body and spirit of men. It doesn’t matter whether you’re a good boy (who says yes to a woman before he even knows what the damn question is), a gay man, a straight man, a walking-man crying, a movie-going middle-aged man, an old man, a young man, a raging, rocking, no-stopping, truck-driving, boiler-making, metal-shaping, saxophone-playing man. We don’t care if you’re a pit bull problem solver, a CEO, a salesman, a soldier, a scientist or a priest. Men who want to get honest with themselves and live more authentic, passionate and intimate lives are invited to join us. An article by Sean Casey Leclaire How Men Heal Most men don’t even know the extent that they have been hurt by the lies of our western, warrior culture. Male betrayal by men runs deep—in the bones and blood and bodies of men. The language of "I feel" is hard for men, especially; when telling another man that their feelings have been hurt, men are, rightfully, afraid of ridicule. I know men who have experienced close male friends actually get up and leave the room when they have expressed sadness or a desire for support and intimate connection. Many men are afraid that once they begin to feel, to release the strong and often suppressed energies of sorrow, hurt, terror, rage, betrayal, rapture, joy, and unbridled passion that they will be overwhelmed. Men need to learn how to channel strong emotion and to see, understand and experience in a safe and provocative setting, exactly how fear manifests in their lives. Men need to begin to change habits of attention and focus on love. The fear and anger that fuels and fills many men’s lives, whether in the marketplace or the bedroom, on the basketball court or board room, in the yoga studio or the zendo can be transformed into a slow, beautiful blues song. How each man sings his song is his own choice. Choice implies awareness and responsibility. Some men hide anger behind wit and sarcasm, becoming black belts in passive-aggressive behavior. Other men remain problem-solving pit bulls, focused and furious. Many men strike out, clumsy and inappropriate with strong emotion. Underneath the anger are tears, buckets of tears. Some of the toughest guys to work with are men who have bent over backwards most of their lives trying to please women. If you hug an angry man, you will see he is crying and longing for heart connection. My colleagues and I engage men with one principle: love or fear, you
choose. How we do this is key. We attend to ourselves and each other.
We dance the difficult and stunning dance of male intimacy. It doesn’t
matter whether you’re a good boy, a gay man, a straight man, a walking-man
crying, a movie-going middle-aged man, an old man, a young man, a raging,
rocking, no-stopping, truck-driving, boiler-making, metal-shaping, saxophone-playing
man, we support you to learn new habits of attention. Men discover qualities
long repressed and longing for expression: stillness, physicality, fluidity,
kindness, passionate purpose, courage, laughter, joy, and generosity.
Men open to the beauty and strength of the male spirit by being with men
who won’t hurt them. Together, we uncover aspects of being, and
get inside, underneath the surface attitudes that guys present to the
world.
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